My Journey…..

Three years ago, I experienced a reawakening that would forever changed my life.
While sitting across from my therapist, a simple yet powerful exercise brought the clarity I had been searching for. In that moment, I realized that after 20 years of marriage, I had married my mother. That revelation explained so much—why I felt stuck, unseen, and emotionally depleted.

It was this insight that anchored me in therapy and propelled me onto a path of healing, self-discovery, and eventually, writing. Since that day, I’ve been documenting my journey.

Here, I’ll share my story—of love lost, heartache endured, triumphs won, and the lessons I’ve learned along the way.

My hope is that whoever finds this blog will be inspired to embrace vulnerability and share their own story.

Unmothered Haven was created as a healing refuge for those who have experienced maternal absence or dysfunction. You are not alone—and this space is for you.

Kimberly